I say no although others would
disagree with me. For the first 3-6 months or until you child sleeps
through the night sex may either be the farthest thing from your mind
or you may not be able to get time enough to make love with your
partner.
You have to make the time to be
intimate with your partner does this mean you have to make love, no,
take time to hug, kiss, cuddle and loving. Love is not all about sex,
it’s also about loving, caring, nurturing intimacy.
Time some time before just
jumping right into sex. Next plan for just 1 night a week that works
for you both and that’s your day or night to make love to your
partner. Keep doing that and working in more love making sessions.
Take your time and have fun it does not need to be stressful.
Both my partner and I made a
promise to be intimate every night before bed and we only made love
maybe once or twice a week and sometimes less. As our kids got a
little older we made the promise to try and make love at least 3 days
a week and we worked up to were we promised to try to make love once
a day or night, whenever we can fit it in. Even if you take showers
together you can have shower sex and sometimes shower sex can be the
best sex.
Always remember to be intimate.
Intimacy is always wonderful. Making love and intimacy helps put us
in a good mood, can either relax us or make us feel energized and is
also good for our health. Making love releases feel good endorphins
that make us feel good and happy, so does being intimate but it
doesn’t release the same amount. So remember take your time, start
out slow, be intimate and have some fun.
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